May 5, 2010


I'm nine, and Sharan is five. (I think.)

It's Christmas, we're in Solomon Mama and Prema aunty's house.

Mama still works in the Nuclear Medicine Department. Aunty taught social studies in our school. (In school, though, she was Solomon teacher - solemn, strict, slightly scary, but mighty good!)

One holiday afternoon, a friend and I didn't know the answer to a question in a quiz in a newspaper - name the river that runs through seven countries. We went straight to her house. She fetched this large coffee table book on Europe. She showed us the map and pointed out the Rhine and the Danube. Pretty pictures. I don't remember which one actually runs through seven countries, but I know that I learnt of these two rivers that afternoon.

Solomon Mama helped me decode electromagnetism for my tenth standard physics exam. But that's not the fun story. I once installed a theme on his computer by mistake, and each time he started his computer, a partly-see-through-bikini-clad Mariah Carey splashed water around instead of the stately "Windows 95" floating amidst blue clouds. He sent me an email about it (through this ancient form of email called zetainfotech - their server crashed when my cousin tried sending me a photo of Azhar!), and I still remember a sentence, "Please get Mariah Carey out of my life!"

The Solomons had a pomeranian, Scooby; a white, fluffy, jumpy variety. Sharan was petrified of him. Which is why I'm surprised he's even there at this Christmas party photo.

Christmases, for many years, meant a morning at their house. Mama would call my Appa on the previous day and request him to send us there for some cake, biscuits and juice. I would run excitedly, and Sharan would accompany me like he was being taken to be administered polio drops.

Look at him - staring into the camera, white-and-white-politician-kurta-pyjama, straight out of a fairness cream advertisement, a head too large for his body, clutching the biscuit as if it were a grenade, turning to the camera almost as if it allows him to take his mind off the biscuit.

And there I am. Oblivious to the camera. Wearing my Venkatesh shirt (it was the same shirt he wore in "Ammai muddu..." in Kshana Kshanam) and my Chermas jeans (I loved that shop only because the clothes fell through some tunnel from the packing people on the second floor to the delivery guys on the ground floor). Too engrossed in my plum cake to bother with the world.

Little has changed. Sharan is still a kurta-sporting diplomat, aware, alert and in touch with his surroundings.

And here I am, trying to come to terms with the world, only to be distracted by every plum cake that comes my way.

12 replies:

buddy said...

plum cakes are delicious, you are forgives

RukmaniRam said...

It is in each little slice of plum cake that we chance upon life. Trying to come to terms with the world is for people who want to analyze it instead of experience it, no?

Unknown said...

I just added some new Blogs to my reader and this post came up. It made smile and now I have an urge for Kottayam plum cake :S

Sita said...

:)

Sharan said...

This is how I described the photograph recently:

"The two women are Prema Aunty and her daughter, Lulu.
Prema Aunty taught in the primary school both Swaroop and I went to. She taught Swaroop in Class 6. 'Genius, special' are words often used by her to describe him.
Lulu is a dentist now: she recently married an MBA.
This is their house, I think. Though I cant say for sure.
The flooring is typical Manipal Quarters: Red Oxide. Only recently, after the systematic renovation of all houses, has the flooring changed. Now we have tiles. I sometimes long for that flooring. It feels like home.

In our old house, Annapurna Chitti had drawn some beautiful Kolams with white paint (I think it was paint, because it didn't go away with washing) all the way from our "Play Room" to the veranda.

White Paint, Red Oxide: they made a deadly combination.

Annapurna Chitti lived in the very same house that we did, but before us: that's one thing I share with her and her sisters-- we all grew up in Manipal. For most of our-- Swaroop's and mine-- childhood, Manipal changed little. Our Manipals were similar."

Sharan said...

Lovely post.

I don't ever remember these parties: I was obviously too young.

And I was just telling Amma how much I used to hate those red things in the plum cake.

Dreadful.

And Biscuit-Grenade. Hahaha.

wanderlust said...

ah nostalgia. what a delicious emotion.

Anonymous said...

What is life without a little distraction! :)
Btw, a Hyderabadi.. I noticed! :)

Unknown said...

ha ha :) A nice read.. makes me quite nostalgic about our childhood days.. you should also write about the cricket that the car shed with the wall separating the shutters as the wicket whose height was always an subject of debate every time each one of us got bowled out...

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shyam

aandthirtyeights said...

@buddy: :)

@Rukmani:

@Radhika: are they lovelier than regular plum cake?

@Sharan: The post was for you. Glad you liked it.

@wanderlust: :) yeah. my favourite.

@Ms. Taggart: I'm a citizen of the world. (didn't grow up in Hyd, only went there for holidays)

@shyam: there is an old post on that cricket!

aandthirtyeights said...

Rukmani: That's what I feel about music sometimes. I come to terms with it. I'm always trying to figure it out. Not experience it.

Manjal said...

You made me cry, Mami. How beautiful. x

P.S. The second I saw this post I thought of your thatha saying "parava illaye, swaroop avide kunjam color thaan, intha sharan" :)